Mutual respect and communication

Councilman Sammy Aiken and I served together for 6 years. We probably disagreed on only about 5% of matters before our board. I'd attest it was largely because we rarely got caught up in national politics on a local level. The job required that we listen to taxpayers, citizens, employees, church leaders and more.

We were tasked with focusing on issues that matter to the people like fixing roads, repairing water/sewer lines, ensuring we lived in a safe community, and finding ways to reduce our electric rates. Having a diverse board ensured that we'd work to represent all our constituents and respect people's opinions. We need these checks and balances in DC, Raleigh and in Lenoir County.

Now, as I've transitioned to businessman, I was honored to have Sammy stop by while he was taking photos across the street. He asked about my father, we chatted about his military service and showed him around the studio. Sammy earned my respect and, although we may disagree at times, he's kept it by being willing to take a phone call on tough issues.

Having received negative comments on several issues over the years, it was always easier to listen when the criticism was constructive. And it was always prudent to consider opposing views even when I didn't agree. Mutual respect and communication ... that's how people move forward together.